That’s my photo, but that’s not my name or occupation. My mug has been hijacked by someone pretending to be someone who does not exist. Like many of you, I had no idea this kind of thing went on. It’s called Catfishing.

Welcome to the dark underbelly of openness.

I’ve read with the greatest respect how Alec Couros has dealt with this. He’s dealt with this a lot, yet he did not clam up his presence on the net, run off to live in an ice house in Forward, and probably shares more of his photos than before. It’s not only brave, it provides valuable lessons in digital literacy, the kind where we need to Question Everything.

It’s happened a lot to Dean Shareski, too.

Maybe it’s just Canadian educators who’s photos get stolen to create fake online identities to lure woman on dating sites to somehow con them. I kind of was jealous for a while, then just said, it was better to now be featured in such a way.

It’s the kind of thing that makes you say ‘GROSSSSSS’.

My number came up today; a fellow flickr user sent me a message to say she had seen my photos reported on romancescam as some dude named David Frederickson (not the most suave non de plume -why is it not Dirk Savage, or Hank Grockman), with links on Facebook and LinkedIn.

This is the photo David is using to be me. I cannot say its a favorite pic, but it was from that special time I was alone in Iceland

creative commons licensed ( BY-SA ) flickr photo shared by cogdogblog

Naturally I was curious and clicked the Facebook link. And the LinkedIn one.

facebook no look

Since I nuked my Facebook account and unlinked myself from LinkedIn, I actually have no recourse to report their site’s abuse of my image.

But what I can do is ask for help

It might take me hours to get an automated response from FacebookedIn, and even more effort to actually get something that addresses the issue.

On twitter, it took approximately 90 seconds- thanks Matt Jukes (in the UK) and Brian Bennet (in America)

And Ron Houtman did the reporting for me

Yes, this is a Terrible Thing and Someone Ought to Do Something About It.

But you cannot. This is the light/dark balance I talk about in presentations on openness.

creative commons licensed (BY-NC-SA)  deviant art photo by LightBeam:
creative commons licensed (BY-NC-SA) deviant art photo by LightBeam:

For all that we cherish, value, and benefit from the openness of the web and the internet, it cannot exist without the the potential for the Dark Side. Not that you have to have it in your face or spend much time there, but you have to allow for it to exist.

That does not take away the yuck factor. When it happens to you.

It’s why the approach and attitude of Alec Couros to remain an open educator

And also, you cannot use rules and technologies to provide an iron clad guarantee. You cannot prevent David Fredericksen (or whomever it is) from taking my photo and putting it on a fake profile.

Well there is one way to prevent it. Never go on the internet. Never put anything on the internet. It’s an option.

Not for me. That approach may address the symptom but not the problem.

And that’s the subtle beauty of the open internet. Beyond the bounds of private enclaves, and LinkedBookIn silos, are the places that use the webness of the web, that there are people like my flickr messenger and the people that report these in online spaces like RomanceScam, and that educators out there like Alec who use their stories as teaching examples.

Do a favor for everyone. Read/Share/Teach from The Real ‘Alec Couros’ Please Stand Up?.

That is what we can do.

UPDATED Related Readings

Are All Online Images Fair Game ?By Jason Wilson

It’s easy to pinch a photo from a website and post it in a new context. But how is the easy circulation of images online challenging our ideas about privacy?


Perhaps, as writers like Daniel Solove suggest, we need to rethink our ideas about privacy in an era of highly spreadable media. Solove draws on the work of researchers on social networks to suggest that privacy shouldn’t be regarded as an on-off switch. Rather, he argues, it can be violated, and damage can occur when something spreads from the relatively closed social network for which it was reasonably intended to a much larger audience.

If that understanding was to inform a new set of norms around privacy, we might not need to be so concerned about what we post online but norms are far slower to evolve than technology is. Perhaps, as Solove suggests, we may need to speed along their evolution with changes in our laws. It’s something to think about the next time your face turns up somewhere unexpected.

And that in turn leads me to David Solove’s The Future of Reputation which you can read for free

The post "No, You Can’t Use My Photo for Your Fake Identity, and No, I Can’t Prevent It" was originally emerged from the primordial ooze and first walked on land at CogDogBlog ( on October 4, 2014.


  • Oh Alan, it’s too weird! I’ve been scraped, but I’ve never been “catfished” … eeek. Although I have to add, the worst attack on my identity came from good old-fashioned lies, person to person, face to face, behind my back. No special technology required. I’ve yet to have an online experience that even comes close to the horror of that low-tech life crisis, a professional disaster that was impossible to remedy. I barely survived. But somehow or other I did survive! Much to some people’s dismay. :-)

  • Stefanie

    Unfortunately I have a lack of empathy for people whose photos are used for a fake identity and so I think this story funny. Then again I imagine believing such a fake identity. It is horrible especially when you believe for the purpose to get to know a nice man for life or something like that. None should believe just one photograph. Like in other areas of life it is possible to make out if someone exists with continuous online information about them. There is nothing dark where you can see light! There may be some shadow sometimes.

  • Kevin Hodgson

    This certainly falls into the trust theme of CCourses, eh? Dang it. You were just too handsome to pass up, apparently.

  • Paul Signorelli

    Great writing, and very helpful in our ongoing efforts to foster what @hrheingold so aptly calls “crap detection.” Thanks for helping so many of us be part of the solution rather feeling as if there is nothing we can do. I believe these positive efforts at facilitating digital literacy/digital citizenship substantially strengthen our communities.

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    I’m torn between low life humor (“I hate how all the beautiful people complain about being hit upon”) and appreciation for your vocal precedent, describing the shape and the size of the screw. Of course, this is one “good” reason walled gardens aren’t going away any time soon, which doesn’t make me love Moodle the more…

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  • OogieM

    I’m more interested in finding out how you discovered the fake information. I sometimes find people using my sheep pictures to advertise their sheep which I do not allow but only if they pop up in my google searches.

    Any hints on how to keep aware of the issues regarding your pictures?

    • Alan Levine aka CogDog

      I was informed first via someone on flickr, and linked to the reports in once i spotted image used i sometime do a reverse image search wirh google. I then sometimes see the same name used, which then turns up fake accounts in facebook and google+. Its a losing game, i feel bad for women being swindled for money in the romance scams. Its a highly organized operation.

      Wonder if you can set up google alert on image search

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