That’s my photo, but that’s not my name or occupation. My mug has been hijacked by someone pretending to be someone who does not exist. Like many of you, I had no idea this kind of thing went on. It’s called Catfishing.
Welcome to the dark underbelly of openness.
I’ve read with the greatest respect how Alec Couros has dealt with this. He’s dealt with this a lot, yet he did not clam up his presence on the net, run off to live in an ice house in Forward, and probably shares more of his photos than before. It’s not only brave, it provides valuable lessons in digital literacy, the kind where we need to Question Everything.
It’s happened a lot to Dean Shareski, too.
Maybe it’s just Canadian educators who’s photos get stolen to create fake online identities to lure woman on dating sites to somehow con them. I kind of was jealous for a while, then just said, it was better to now be featured in such a way.
It’s the kind of thing that makes you say ‘GROSSSSSS’.
My number came up today; a fellow flickr user sent me a message to say she had seen my photos reported on romancescam as some dude named David Frederickson (not the most suave non de plume -why is it not Dirk Savage, or Hank Grockman), with links on Facebook and LinkedIn.
This is the photo David is using to be me. I cannot say its a favorite pic, but it was from that special time I was alone in Iceland
— Alan Levine ? (@cogdog) October 4, 2014
Naturally I was curious and clicked the Facebook link. And the LinkedIn one.
Since I nuked my Facebook account and unlinked myself from LinkedIn, I actually have no recourse to report their site’s abuse of my image.
But what I can do is ask for help
— Alan Levine ? (@cogdog) October 4, 2014
It might take me hours to get an automated response from FacebookedIn, and even more effort to actually get something that addresses the issue.
On twitter, it took approximately 90 seconds- thanks Matt Jukes (in the UK) and Brian Bennet (in America)
— Brian E. Bennett (@bennettscience) October 4, 2014
@cogdog the Fb one seems to have gone..
— Matt Jukes (@jukesie) October 4, 2014
And Ron Houtman did the reporting for me
— Ron Houtman (@ronhoutman) October 4, 2014
Yes, this is a Terrible Thing and Someone Ought to Do Something About It.
But you cannot. This is the light/dark balance I talk about in presentations on openness.
For all that we cherish, value, and benefit from the openness of the web and the internet, it cannot exist without the the potential for the Dark Side. Not that you have to have it in your face or spend much time there, but you have to allow for it to exist.
That does not take away the yuck factor. When it happens to you.
It’s why the approach and attitude of Alec Couros to remain an open educator
— Dr. Alec Couros (@courosa) October 4, 2014
And also, you cannot use rules and technologies to provide an iron clad guarantee. You cannot prevent David Fredericksen (or whomever it is) from taking my photo and putting it on a fake profile.
Well there is one way to prevent it. Never go on the internet. Never put anything on the internet. It’s an option.
Not for me. That approach may address the symptom but not the problem.
And that’s the subtle beauty of the open internet. Beyond the bounds of private enclaves, and LinkedBookIn silos, are the places that use the webness of the web, that there are people like my flickr messenger and the people that report these in online spaces like RomanceScam, and that educators out there like Alec who use their stories as teaching examples.
Do a favor for everyone. Read/Share/Teach from The Real ‘Alec Couros’ Please Stand Up?.
That is what we can do.
UPDATED Related Readings
— Kate Bowles (@KateMfD) October 4, 2014
It’s easy to pinch a photo from a website and post it in a new context. But how is the easy circulation of images online challenging our ideas about privacy?
Perhaps, as writers like Daniel Solove suggest, we need to rethink our ideas about privacy in an era of highly spreadable media. Solove draws on the work of researchers on social networks to suggest that privacy shouldn’t be regarded as an on-off switch. Rather, he argues, it can be violated, and damage can occur when something spreads from the relatively closed social network for which it was reasonably intended to a much larger audience.
If that understanding was to inform a new set of norms around privacy, we might not need to be so concerned about what we post online but norms are far slower to evolve than technology is. Perhaps, as Solove suggests, we may need to speed along their evolution with changes in our laws. It’s something to think about the next time your face turns up somewhere unexpected.