Just to prove that nothing blogged here is written chiseled in granite, with great shame I admit unpulling the fork I put in my facebook account in 2014. I am present with the most minimal timeline, and it is solely so I can communicate with students in Project Community.

That said, I am feeling the slimy ooze of Facebook.

Another reason is so I can harpoon catfishers. What’s catfishing? Go read Alec Couros’s experiences. Read it all.

Not nearly with the frequency of Alec, but enough to make me queasy, I get emails from people who share with me LinkedIn, Facebook profiles of people I do not know who are strangely familiar.

Meet Gary L Gloer

Gary's photos remind of me someone, I just cannot quite place it.
Gary’s photos remind of me someone, I just cannot quite place it.

Gary, originally from and still living in Arkansas City, Kansas, apparently is a crane operator for Fox Oil Drilling.

Gary has been on Facebook since May 2015, with a profile sporting my own photographs. He also, is according to an email I got a few days ago from some oen worried about a friend who is being romanced by Gary. Gary has a phone numbers in Nigeria, but claims it is because of the travel he did.

Gary sent her this photo of him with a friend named “Brian”

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which has an uncanny resemblance to a photo I took and posted to flickr in 2008, and the person I am with is actually named Lee

Me and Lee LeFever
flickr photo shared by cogdogblog under a Creative Commons ( BY ) license

Gary also claimed this is him negotiating an oil deal

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I am having trouble locating that photo; I am guessing that might be at the Learning2 conference I attended in Shanghai in 2008.

Here are more of “Gary’s” photos

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His current profile photo is one from me presenting on 50 Ways to Tell a story at the 2008 Northern Voice Conference in Vancouver. At one time I used the photo for accounts; a reverse image search finds it in the wordpress uploads directory of http://www.jerkwithacamera.com/

The image file name 2286210519_f5f056e29a.jpg let’s me know it was downloaded from flickr, and because I know my way around flickr, it should be found at https://www.flickr.com/photo.gne?id=2286210519 Bummer

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Updated! Good news, I contacted Reilley, and he republished the original photo of ME that Gary Goober claims to be him.

Also D’Arcy Norman has a photo from the same event, it should be obvious it is me. Me. Not some DB named Gary.

These are my other flickr photos that “Gary” has sitting in his facebook account, in his profile, or previously used a profile photo

Picking Stickers for the StoryBox
flickr photo shared by cogdogblog under a Creative Commons ( BY ) license
A Great Day At Stanley
flickr photo shared by cogdogblog under a Creative Commons ( BY ) license

Okay. So it should be easy to report this to facebook.

It is.

Except, according to Facebook:

Thank you for taking the time to report something that you feel may violate our Community Standards. Reports like yours are an important part of making Facebook a safe and welcoming environment. We reviewed the profile you reported for pretending to be you and found it doesn’t violate our Community Standards.

So according to Community Standards it is acceptable to present yourself with a fake name, using someone else’s photos as your own, and in an occupation you do not do.

And using this profile to defraud people in a romance scam is supported by Facebook.

That is not ok with me.

Tell me Facebook how you allow “Gary Gloer” to create an account with false information using MY PHOTO:

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Is Gary using his “authentic name and identity” Is he not publishing the personal information of me without my consent?

Please readers excuse the bomb, but FUCK YOU FACEBOOK?

I wonder how long it would take them to take out a fake account using this as profile photo?

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Facebook remains for me a steaming pile of poop, a shameful oozing pimple in the butt of the internet. My main use for it will to be publishing the fraudulent uses of my own photos that facebook refuses to police

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I give Facebook a permanent Cone of Shame to wear

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UPDATE: Oct 12, 2015 After a second report, linking to my gallery of original images and this blog post, Facebook changed their mind:

bye gary

While this is good news, why does Facebook first tell me a fake profile using my photos does NOT violate their community standards and then now it does?

UPDATE About 2 hours later
Gary L. Gloer is persistent and has created a new fake Facebook profile again using my photo here as “his” profile pic, and some woman’s pic I do not know

WordPressing in Iceland
flickr photo shared by cogdogblog under a Creative Commons ( BY ) license

This same photo has also been used in the past for “David Frederickson” or “Timothy Stefan”.

Facebook, you continue to wear the cone of shame.


Top / Featured Image Credits: flickr photo by Mike Tewkesbury http://flickr.com/photos/7687126@N06/2854503391 shared under a Creative Commons (BY-ND) license

The post "Facebook as Catfish Paradise: Its Community Standards Wears the Cone of Shame" was originally emerged from the primordial ooze and first walked on land at CogDogBlog (http://cogdogblog.com/2015/10/facebook-as-catfish-paradise-its-community-standards-wears-the-cone-of-shame/) on October 11, 2015.

15 Comments

  • Harriet

    That really sucks. FWIW, I reported the account. Maybe if enough people report it they’ll do something. I’ve read about the Nigerian romance scams and it disgusts me.

  • Sandy Brown Jensen

    Does this mean we’re not going to be Facebook friends? This one lone crazy ruined it for all the rest of us??

  • Carolyn Robinson

    I too was scammed of 1600 from Alex Gallart using LinkedIn and facebook with Dr Alec Couros pictures. Sending me pictures promising me marriage believing in love at first sight. Using Christian and Clara for your children pictures and also George Couros as the name John Williams to be your gold business Associate and my Facebook friend. Also had me set up skype and it was you I skype with twice. Also had me set up whataps to communicate with all the lies to get money for Clara being sick…he’s stuck in Accra Ghana with her. My compassion made me help. I also fell madly in love with him. He communicated everyday with all his problems. Struggling now to keep my house and car. Because believe he scammed me for 1 year using Marcus Raines as his name of 15k. He immediately came into the picture saying love has no color when I commented on an interracial dating site which popped up on facebook. As you and asked me to be his friend. Claimed he was scammed by a Nigerian woman and understood what I was feeling. Said not to cry or worry he would help me clear my debts because he cared about me. He sent me lots of pictures of you and your son and daughter staying wife was deceased. At first I had no feeling but fell madly in love with him . He pretended to be religious also. I was naive and honest. I never experienced anything like this in my life which emotionally and financially destroyed me. I have reported this to facebook and a scamming scammers link. This is how I found who you really are. That Alex Gallart scammed me.

    • Alan Levine aka CogDog cogdogblog.com

      My heart goes out to you Carolyn, losing money is terrible, but being deceived, tricked, and manipulating your feelings as this person/group did is inhumane. I can only hope some karma catches up with them. The more we can get the awareness out there, the more people can stand up against these acts.

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  • Stephen Downes

    So how do you fix this? How does Facebook fix this?

    • Alan Levine aka CogDog cogdogblog.com

      I dunno. That’s not my software. Here’s my list:

      • The reporting procedure is opaque. In four instances I have reported accounts for impersonating me. Always the first response is that the fraud account is not violating their community standards. So i have to then file a second issue with documentation showing that the photos others are using are mine. The violator gets more leeway then the person who has been violated. You never contact a person at Facebook, they never do more than click responses.
      • The photos people use on Facebook cannot be reverse image searched; they are not indexed by google, so if you see a questionable photo, it can only find it outside of Facebook. There should be a way to find the same image across facebook
      • It is obviously easy for people to create fake accounts; the one who used mine created a second account by appending a ,1 to their username, and did so within an hour of the first one taken down. Everything on Facebook says how much they aim to protect your identity.

      Many people, mostly women are being romance scammed by organized units of criminals, and are swindled out of 1000s of dollars. This is rampant, and Facebook, to my knowledge, never acknowledges this is going on in their house.

      • Barbara Cooley

        Hi. My son found your site because I was being contact by Jose Castillo, an architect living in Kearny NJ. His Facebook account had all pictures of you but the stupid ass left a picture of you wearing a name tag with your name on it! I reported to FB but then I blocked it so I don’t know if it is still out there. Thank you, Barbara

        • Alan Levine aka CogDog cogdogblog.com

          Oh Jose… I may look for it, but to be honest, reporting on Facebook has a negligible effect on the scammers. But I am more glad you figure out how to flush the catfish out.

  • Marie Lagerström

    Hi!
    I just get a message from Timothy Boostrom on facebook. I took his photo and googled him and here I am……
    Marie

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  • Bettina Heigl

    Hello Gary,
    my name is Bettina from germany. A few days ago i met on Tinder a guy named Gary Gloer from Arkanas – Pangburn. he is a Petroleum Geologist. A Widow with 2 Children. He has his Facebook acount just since 5 Days. And this is not normal. He is a widow with 2 Children. He tells me already words about big love. I dont believe men anymore, and thats wy im google him. And here i am on our site. But he has different pictures than you. Sorry for my bad englisch….
    Do you think he is real? Thank you for answering.
    many greetings
    Bettina

    • Alan Levine aka CogDog cogdogblog.com

      I cannot say if he is real; my hunch is no. Try a search on the images and see if they show up with some other name.

      This video (has harsh language) on “How Spot a Catfish” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LagwG7bieEA recommends a test of asking the person to send you a photo of them doing something not likely to be found in existing photos — ask them for a photo with their pinky finger touching their ear. I would remain very very cautious.

      PS- May name is not Gary. His name likely is not Gary either.

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